Nollywood actress Damilola Adegbite has urged single women to stop accepting relationship proposals solely because a man has expressed interest in them.
Adegbite gave the advice during a recent edition of her podcast, which was shared on her YouTube channel.
According to the actress, women should not feel pressured to settle with men who are ready for marriage simply because they have been selected by those men.
Instead, she encouraged women to consider whether the person is genuinely compatible with them and capable of building a healthy relationship.
“Ladies, don’t choose someone because they chose you. Choose someone because they are right for you,” Adegbite said.
She explained that age should not be the deciding factor when choosing a life partner. Whether a prospective partner is younger, older or the same age, she said, the important questions should concern love, support and the ability to build together.
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“At the end of the day, we are not looking for numbers. We are looking for a partner,” she said.
Adegbite also spoke specifically to older women who are approached by younger men.
She warned that being admired by a younger man should not automatically be interpreted as a reason to accept his proposal.
According to her, women should first determine whether such a man is respectful, emotionally mature and genuinely prepared for commitment.
“To the older woman, if a younger man is interested in you, please don’t make the mistake of choosing him because he makes you feel desirable,” she said.
Adegbite urged women to consider whether the prospective partner makes them feel safe and supports their personal lives.
She added that older women with children should ensure that a younger partner respects their children and understands their responsibilities.
“Only choose him if he is emotionally mature and knows what he wants, respects your children and your life, and actually wants to build something with you,” she added.
The actress emphasised that genuine compatibility should take priority over age, attention or the desire to simply settle down.
