Iyabo Ojo links VDM’s behavior to challenging upbringing

In response to VeryDarkMan’s alleged bribery and infidelity, Iyabo Ojo has responded.
In a lengthy Instagram post, Iyabo Ojo offered her condolences for VDM’s alleged poisonous behavior stemming from his difficult upbringing.
VDM’s parents’ incapacity to offer a secure and caring environment, Iyabo underlined, resulted in unresolved anguish and wrath.

Following his many accusations against her, including claims of infidelity and bribery, Iyabo Ojo has answered to VeryDarkMan.

Iyabo Ojo shared her sympathy for VDM’s challenging background in a lengthy Instagram post, stating that she thinks it contributed to his bad conduct.
She brought up the fact that VDM’s parents failed to give him a secure and caring environment, which led to unresolved anger and emotional misery.
Iyabo Ojo expressed concern over VDM’s mother’s parenting decisions and asked why she allowed her child to be independent at such a young age.

She also attacked VDM’s mother for not being able to provide for her children and for depending too much on her ex-husband.

Rather than misdirecting his hatred against innocent people, the actress advised VDM to seek inner peace and ask his parents for forgiveness.

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After VDM accused Iyabo Ojo of engaging in a threesome with her daughter and accepting N65 million to promote justice for the late musician Mohbad, Ojo made these comments.

The author wrote:

Vincent, I’ve learned more about your actions, and it’s very depressing. You don’t seem to have had a stable, loving, or caring upbringing. The root of your toxic narcissistic behavior is unresolved anger and anguish about your parents’ lack of care.

You have decided to criticize successful men and women rather than the people who are accountable. As you tell your story, it becomes evident that you had to steal food to survive and that you nearly got lynched as a child. How could your mother have allowed such to occur? Why did you not take more action to give your child stability, Mama Vincent?

Vincent, your unresolved trauma has made you a toxic, manipulative, and dishonest individual who damages people’s reputations in order to gain attention. The source of your ire is not Paulo, Mama Festus, Priscilla, or me; it is your parents.

“It’s evident from your fascination with me that you think of me constantly. If it results in improved sleep, keep going. However, I implore you to remove hatred from your heart and forgive your parents. You will find tranquility only after that.